Guys Mind During No Contact

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Wondering what is the guy's mind during no contact? Find out how you can use radio silence or the No contact rule to win back your ex.

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Guys Mind During No Contact

Shortly after a relationship breakdown, many women ask themselves the following: When will I contact my ex-boyfriend again? There is a lot of advice about when you should do that. Unfortunately, most advice is wrong, because they let you contact your ex-boyfriend too soon or too late. Both scenarios do you no good if you want to get your ex-boyfriend back. There is little room for error if you want to tackle it properly. Just bumping into something is not a good idea in any case. The contact you have with your ex-boyfriend and what to say and how to say it plays a very big role in reclaiming your ex-boyfriend.

Think about it. The hours, days, weeks after the breakup of the relationship is an incredibly emotional period. You are both very sensitive to what the other person is saying and doing. That’s why you have to think very carefully when the relationship is over. If you follow your instincts, it can completely ruin your chances.

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If you behave in an overly emotional or hysterical way, you can count on your ex-boyfriend to get a very negative picture of you. He will continue to see this image for a very long time. He will also do everything he can to avoid seeing you. If he thinks you are unstable, he will contact you less quickly. Moreover, all the communication you have with him will be extremely tense and uncomfortable.

You have to be very careful. After all, you want to encourage him to contact you and not that he is going to avoid you. This is the most favorable scenario. If you want him to make contact, there are a number of things you absolutely should not do. For example, don’t act angry or emotionally against him. Also, don’t start about the relationship break. He will not want to talk about it again and again and he will think that you will not accept it. Little things like this make sure he doesn’t want to talk to you. That drives you further apart.

It’s the truth. The longer you stay in the relationship, the worse it is for you. If you try to meet him, or call or app after the relationship break, then you only bite yourself in the belly. Your ex then thinks that you are desperate and that you cannot let go. This is very unattractive for him. It won’t make him want you back. Instead, he will be happy that he has broken the relationship with you.

No contact, radio silence, may seem to go against your feelings, because you really want to talk to him. You will wonder how you can convince him to come back to you if you don’t even talk to him. The fact is that it is much more important how often you contact us than what you say to him. At least if the relationship has recently been broken.

The communication between you and your ex-boyfriend should decrease very quickly after the relationship break. It might be difficult for you to handle that. Yet it is what you ultimately want to achieve. It ensures that you end up in the best possible position to regain his love and desire.

If you forcefully try to hold onto the relationship, then you only make it worse for yourself. It is normal for the contact to stop when you separate. You cannot expect that everything will remain the same just after the break. That just doesn’t make sense. You both need time to adjust to the new situation between you. Keeping in touch would not only be terribly uncomfortable but also confusing and painful.

Your first step to getting him back is to leave him alone. Once you have accepted the relationship breakdown and have given him freedom, then you have also set yourself free and you clear the way for reunification. If you don’t do this, it will be obvious to your ex-boyfriend that you want him back. They may be a few innocent messages, but your intentions are clear. He will, therefore, oppose it with all his might.

Every attempt you make to communicate with him ends in failure and disappointment for you. You have to accept that it is over for now and you have to let it go. This is the very best thing you can do now. So try to be strict with yourself if you want to contact him.

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You must accept that your previous relationship has ended and that any attempt to keep in touch gives the impression that you are fighting for something that is no longer there. Your ex-boyfriend will not appreciate this. He gets a negative image from you. He is going to see you as someone who is obsessed with him. This means that he will not contact you by himself. He doesn’t even want to have anything to do with you, because your behavior makes him feel uncomfortable.

If you do not want him to evade you, then it is necessary that you come over as an adult and that you accept that the relationship is over, even if you are only pretending. It must seem that you have moved on with your life and that you are dealing with the situation in an adult manner. This becomes very difficult if your ex-boyfriend has lost all interest in you and if he does not pay any attention to what you are doing. There are ways to unknowingly let him know that you have moved on with your life, without saying that to him in those words. In this article, you will learn how to do that.

You want your ex-boyfriend to see that you are no longer interested in him, even if that is not the case. You have to do what he least expects to provoke a reaction from him. He expects you to go after him, that you have a hard time with the situation, especially if he is the one who dumped you. If you do exactly the opposite, he will be upset. He will then assess the situation again.

If you stay calm and accept the situation, he will get confused and things will start to wonder about you. This is a crucial psychological strategy that women have used in the past to get ex-friends back simply because it works. Retiring yourself is not just an effective strategy to use against him. It ensures that he is attracted to you more and that he suddenly becomes interested again in what you are doing.

Compare it to a fisherman. The fisherman throws his line in the water, away from himself. He then waits patiently. From where he stands, he sees no hook and no bait, but he knows it is all still there. The hook is knowledge of specific ex-back strategies, you are the bait and your ex-boyfriend is the fish.

You cannot see what the fish (your ex-boyfriend) is doing now. Perhaps he is enjoying himself further down the river. While you wait patiently, a moment comes when the fish gets hungry. The fish will instinctively know where to go to eat (to you). He bites into the bait and the fisherman brings him in. He has been hooked.

In the same way, you can draw your friend back to you when he starts to miss you and is hungry with longing for you. He allows you to be hooked again. Try to think of the fisherman’s story if you start to lose patience or if you just don’t like it anymore. Some things are worth the wait.

If you break any form of contact with your ex, that is, real radio silence, then this is the quickest and most powerful way to revive his interest in you immediately. The sad thing is that many women are almost impossible to achieve this. Every fiber in their body screams to contact him.

If it fails to win back your ex-boyfriend, it is usually because you have not fully followed the phase of radio silence with your ex. If you break the No Contact Rule, it will only cause your ex-boyfriend to start thinking things like:

“I am disturbed that she keeps calling and apping. It is clear that she does not want to lose me, but what a letdown. In fact, it’s just pathetic. “

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It is important that you understand something about the psychology of the male brain. If you keep running after him and are desperate, your ex-boyfriend will soon lose all the respect he had for you or what was left of it. Think about it carefully. Why was he ever attracted to you? You were probably much more confident and mysterious at the time. Men find this very attractive. They like independent women who know who they are, not emotional wrecks.

If you are constantly bothering him, it will only cause him to feel sorry for you. If you don’t have enough respect for yourself to stay away, he won’t have any respect for you. And if he realizes that you are doing everything to get him back, then you push him further away and he gets less and less appreciation for you. You must show him what you are worth and that you are not easy to get. That is crucial. That is why the period of radio silence, the No-Contact rule, is a powerful strategy because it helps you to achieve this.

Nobody expects this to be easy. You saw your friend every day and he was a big part of your life. It will, therefore, take you a lot of effort not to communicate with him at all. You have an enormous void in your life and you will miss it terribly. If you have this feeling, remember that he probably feels something like that.

It is normal that he still has feelings for you. There is a strong emotional bond between you and you cannot just break it and deny it. Even though it may seem that he suddenly broke the relationship, he still expected you to be there. Maybe as a girlfriend. He probably expected that he would gradually withdraw. That way he could gradually get used to the idea that you were no longer there.

Chances are that your ex-boyfriend expected you to stay after him or that you would at least be interested in him. This would give him power over you. He has the advantage because he only has to let you go completely when he is ready. In his eyes, it is a gradual process, because he knows that you still have many feelings for him.

If he knows exactly where you are (in the waiting room to wait for him) then he has all the time in the world to decide what kind of woman he wants to continue. If you continue to be part of his life, he knows exactly what you are doing and what you feel for him. And if he knows he can get you back any time if he feels like it, then he won’t be in a hurry to breathe new life into your relationship.

Realize that this is only possible if you give him what he wants. You can change the entire power game between you by taking action and withdrawing when he least expects it. Do it the right way and you will find that he treats you very differently and treats you very differently. This is because your withdrawal has caused him to miss you more than he expected. This is what you must reach first to win it back. Because if he doesn’t miss you, he’s not interested in a relationship with you.

If you create an enormous emptiness in his life, he will long for you again and he will go after you again. By disappearing completely from view, you can achieve this and ensure that he misses you. Ultimately, this will speed up the entire process of starting a relationship again. The best thing is that he is after you and not the other way around!

You must be very strict with yourself. Radio silence, or the No Contact Rule, means that there should not be any contact. In no way whatsoever. You can only be successful if you fully adhere to this.

So you’re not going to call, email, text, or talk to him. Not driving past his house or trying to meet him “by chance”. Then you are obliged to talk to him and you try to avoid that. No exceptions! The better you adhere to this, the greater the chance that your ex-boyfriend will suddenly contact you from scratch.

If that happens, it is important that you do not participate in his contact attempts. Of course you do not do that in a nasty way and you are not going to say that you do not want to talk to him, then you only seem bitter and childish. He will also not try to contact you again because he thinks you are not open to it.

Instead, you switch off your phone, switch off your mobile, or do not answer his calls. It is better not to answer than because you let his interest peak in the first case.

If you are not where he thinks you are, waiting for him on the other end of the phone, his imagination will run wild. He is going to wonder what you are doing and with whom. He will give it a spin when he realizes that you are too busy to answer his calls. This is very effective and the best part is that you don’t have to do anything for it!

The same applies to your social media accounts. Don’t go on Facebook like you did before. Do not give any hints at all about how you feel in the hope that he will see it. It is best to deactivate your account for a while or try to stay away from it altogether. He will only use it to see how you are doing. Don’t give him that pleasure. If you can no longer be seen online, it means that he must make an effort himself. If he wants to know how you are doing, then he will have to ask you himself.

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Another advantage of staying away from Facebook is to prevent you from becoming paranoid. Instead of recovering and setting up an effective strategy to win him back, you are only viewing his statuses a few times a day. Ultimately, you will over-analyze them all and look too much behind them. That is not healthy and it does not ensure that you can focus on what you have to do to win it back .

He assumes that after the relationship breakup you can still be seen online, so he can keep an eye on you. If you disappear, it is very disturbing for him. His head goes crazy and you are mysterious to him again. This is the secret to pulling it back at you, so be mysterious!

If your ex-boyfriend realizes that you are still after him and that you are interested in him, then he is safe. As soon as you do the exact opposite. As soon as you no longer give him the attention he desires, he must suddenly consider the possibility that you are no longer interested in him. This is a huge blow to his ego and he will want to do something about it before it’s too late.

That is the key question and we are going to talk about that now. Even though every relationship break is different, there is some general advice when it comes to contacting your ex-boyfriend. You will come across much different advice on the internet about when you can best contact again. In my experience it is best to last for around six weeks.

Six weeks of radio silence may seem like a very long period for you. It will also go very slowly in the beginning, but you have to keep your goal in mind. You want him back. You will only be able to achieve this if you do not contact him.

Normally it takes about as long to recover from being dumped. All the bitterness and all the anger that you now feel for him will soon disappear. You will also look much more positively at the whole situation. If you have said things to him that you are ashamed of, then they will be long forgotten after these six weeks.

The best part is that your ex-boyfriend will miss you terribly during this period. If he misses you so much, it is much more likely that he will try to get in touch with you. Chances are that he will contact you much sooner than the six weeks are over if you tackle everything properly. Even if he would not call, you can assume that he is much more open to you, because he has not heard from you for so long.

Another advantage for you is that he will not be so suspicious when you contact him again. Julie's conversations will be much less uncomfortable if he sees that you have not tried to convince him to start a relationship with you again.

There are a number of powerful strategies that you can use to ensure that your ex-boyfriend contacts you on their own. It is important that you know everything about this. You learn how to seduce him when you talk to each other again.

Technique For Getting Your Ex Back in Your Arms…

Even Though You Think It’s Impossible, I’ll teach You How To Use This Technique To Compel Your Ex To Fall Back In Love With You Again… For Good!

Watch Video Here

Guys Mind During No Contact by Theresa Alice


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Guys Mind During No Contact by Theresa Alice

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