Make Him Obsessed With You Tips

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Are you searching for how to make him obsessed with you tips? Now, this is, of course, a huge question, about which I might as well write an entire book, but for the sake of convenience, I will limit myself to seven tips.

It is the secret male obsession for the right answer to a man’s heart. When you discover all the techniques, you will be able to make the guy of your liking feel the strong desire for you which is truly powerful. You’ll end up being an important part of your man’s life. Continue to read here

Make Him Obsessed With You Tips

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To make a man completely crazy about you it is first of all necessary to have your own life in order.

Self-confidence plays a major role in this.

Men love a woman with confidence and especially when that woman shows an interest in them.

So work on your self-confidence.

Most people are insecure because they do too little in their lives, they hope that a relationship will miraculously make everything better for them.

Watch out for this trap

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This is because a relationship does not have all your problems for your fixture.

And in my opinion, it is never a good idea to start a relationship when you are not happy.

Perhaps you are very happy at the moment and you feel self-confident, in which case I didn’t say anything and you can safely continue to the next tip.

But if that is not the case, then, first of all, it is important to ensure that you have a nice and interesting life.

When you have such a life, you automatically increase your confidence.

So make sure that you have a nice group of friends, that you do things that make you happy and that you continue to develop yourself.

The moment you are actively working on your self-confidence you will see that you get more attention from men and that the men with whom your date will fall mad on you.

If it is something that makes men crazy, it is a woman who makes him feel good about himself.

And no matter how logical the following may sound, a man can only feel good if he feels like “the man”.

If you can give him this feeling then he will automatically find you a lot nicer.

This alone can ensure that he cannot get enough of you.

Making him feel masculine is a very simple way to make a man crazy about you.

Maybe you think now:

Yes, Tim, how can I make him feel masculine?

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Relax, this is a lot easier than most women initially think.

The best ways to do this:

  • Ask him for help.
  • Let him solve things for you.

Exactly, it can be that simple.

So the moment you come from the supermarket and you have a heavy bag, ask him if he can lug the bag for you.

At that moment he immediately feels like a man (and strong).

And whether you can carry that bag yourself does not really matter that much, it is about giving it the idea that you need it.

Because look …

He wants to be seen by you as a real man

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The moment you do everything yourself and you never even ask him for help, he does not have this feeling.

The result?

He does not feel comfortable in your relationship and therefore automatically finds you less pleasant.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s great if you are an independent woman who can do everything herself.

But it is true that most strong women (even though they can actually do everything themselves) ask a man for help, for the simple reason that this is a good way to win a man completely for them.

So the most important thing to make a man crazy about you is to ask him for help and have him fix things for you. With this, you simply give him the feeling that he is the man.

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In the world of relationships and dating, SAAI predictably is another word.

And I can imagine that neither of you is waiting for a boring relationship, is it?

I know, rhetorical question;)

To make him crazy about you, it is therefore important to interrupt your routine (if you have one) every now and then.

What you often see happen is that a relationship between a man and a woman is very exciting and varied in the beginning.

But then there comes a time when both of them often do less effort for each other, they think:

I don’t have to bother anymore since we are in a relationship now.

Just between you and me …

This is the fear of every man

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After all, men are as if it is dead that a woman makes less effort once they are in a relationship.

That is why it is so important to be unpredictable from time to time, especially at the start of the dating phase.

This is how you make him curious, simply because he is never quite sure exactly what he is up to.

So don’t go and do a cup of coffee in town every time, but surprise him once by taking him to the petting zoo.

Simply make sure that he does not always know where he stands, guaranteed that this will drive him crazy.

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You hear me say it over and over, men want to hunt.

If a man does not have to make an effort for you, it is almost impossible to feel attracted to you.

So if you respond to all his messages within five seconds and say “yes” to all his requests, the fun is gone for him quickly.

You see the same thing happening with a lion hunting a gazelle.

When a lion sees that a gazelle is injured, he will immediately stop hunting, for the simple reason that there is no challenge.

Men are sometimes just like lions

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Because if you see his eyes as easy in a man, he loses interest.

By this, I don’t mean that you always have to play ‘hard to get’ and that you have to behave like an ice rabbit.

No.

What I mean is a woman who says:

Yes, I like you, but I don’t think it’s that easy. If you want to win me for you, you have to do your best for me.

If you can convey this vibe to him, you make him crazy with desire

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You can do this by asking him to spend a lot of time with you.

For example, if he asks you on a Tuesday evening at 10 p.m. if you want to come and see him, say something along the lines of:

Sorry, but I’m not the type of woman who comes to see you at such a time. But because I think you are a nice man, we can do a cup of coffee in the city on Saturday afternoon.

With this you let him know immediately that you are not an easy “prey”.

… And even though we don’t say so, men really like this.

Because if there is something that makes a man obsessed with you, then it is things like this.

In addition, there is something else in the example above that can make a man crazy about you, namely:

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We already mentioned at the last tip that it is good to have a man make an effort for you.

But let him know that you like him, because if a man is not entirely sure whether he has a chance, then the chance is quite high that he will leave you (out of self-protection).

Men have a hate of rejection.

For that reason you want to let him know from time to time that you like him because he thinks:

Gee, I have a chance with her.

And if a man has this impression (and he likes you), very little is needed to make him crazy about you.

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Okay. If women do this to me, I hate it, but I have to admit that this works pretty well.

By “sometimes take a step back” I mean:

Have periods where you have a lot of contacts, followed by periods where you have little contact.

When a man initially gets a lot of your attention and then not, then he gets confused.

And with all mammals, it works so that if we randomly get a reward — in this case, a lot of your attention — then we always want to go for it.

As soon as it is obvious that a man has your attention, it soon becomes a little less interesting for him

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But when you give a man random attention you can make him completely crazy about you.

You see the same principle in every form of gambling.

Just think about it: why do you think so many people have a gambling addiction?

The reason for this is because you win a random number of times and lose a random number of times.

Because of this the person who takes a gamble only wants more and more for the “reward”, and before he knows it he is a gambling addict.

Anyway, you are not here to discover why someone becomes a gambling addict.

You are here to discover …How to make him obsessed with you tips

If you occasionally put in a radio silence of two or three days with a man — certainly in the data phase — then you will see that a man will always prefer you.

  • He’s going to like you a lot.
  • He will put more effort into for you.
  • He will do his best harder for you.

… And before you have anything like:

“Yes, but I don’t want to play games with him” or “ What if he meets someone else in those two days?”

I fully understand you, but actually, everything is a kind of game when you’re flirting with someone.

And remember that you not only do yourself a favor with this but you too.

A man (even if he says he doesn’t) wants to make an effort for you, and taking a step back from time to time is an effective way to get that done.

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It is no secret that a good sex life contributes to a better relationship.

And if you can make you drive a man crazy in bed, then he will automatically like you better than he already finds you.

That may sound very logical, but driving a man crazy in bed is not that easy.

In fact, it is something that many women are unsure about.

I even got the following question this week:

Er… Tim, do you have any tips to drive a man crazy in bed?

To drive a man crazy in bed it is essential to know what men want in bed and during sex, a few of those things are:

  • That you say his name.
  • That you are open-minded.
  • That you are ‘a bit rough’.

These kinds of things can already make you drive a man crazy in bed.

The very … ALL … best way to make a man crazy about you

Oh yes … there is another simple way I didn’t tell you about, with this way you can drive a man so crazy that he will never be able to leave you.

Use this way so only if you really like him.

It is the secret male obsession for the right answer to a man’s heart. When you discover all the techniques, you will be able to make the guy of your liking feel the strong desire for you which is truly powerful. You’ll end up being an important part of your man’s life. Continue to read here

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Make Him Obsessed With You Tips by Theresa Alice

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I’ve been experiencing a lot about relationship. I write about marriage, relationships, love and breakups. Thanks for viewing my articles.

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